Wise words

"It takes courage … and humility to put away old hatred, divisions and traditions that constrict and confine people into a blind succession of destructive behavior toward others," said President Uchtdorf, second counselor in the church's First Presidency [in his speech to the Los Angeles World Affairs Council]. "It is within our reach to breach barriers of hate and build bridges of brotherhood and understanding between opposing cultures, beliefs, religion and world views."

Good suggestions for all of us.  Read the article here.

I have witnessed miracles which have solidified my beliefs.  Faith precedes the miracle and I know this is true, but after our faith and with our obedience and trust, we are able to witness miracles like Jesus performed on the earth.

Tidbits

Some wise words from an Education Week instructor (on compassion). I'll admit I've been frustrated with these responses and I have also made the mistakes of using them myself. I need to work on this.

UNHELPFUL responses:

• Giving advice: “What you need to do is . . .”

• Talking about your own feelings and experiences instead of theirs: “That same thing happened to me. . . .”

• Making their pain seem unimportant: “Everyone suffers. What makes you so special?”

HELPFUL ways of showing understanding:

• Acknowledge their feelings: “I can see that you feel strongly about this.”

• Invite more discussion: “I would like to understand. Please tell me more.”

• Acknowledge that their pain is real for them: “You must feel awful.”